Time is everything. Time is money. Time is something that you can never get back. These are things that I realize on a daily basis. Having just been assigned some additional duties (which take up an additional 11 hours a week!) there is little time for me to go to the gym let alone write. With the third novel being the biggest production of them all; including an agent, a big time publisher and a project manager position, I can’t seem to find time to write.
One of my recent entries regarding insomnia truly hasn’t stopped. I still stay up late (check out the time of this blog) and I still have to get up early so I can be to work at a respectable time. Factor in a relationship, one that I would quit everything for, and you have yourself some very time consuming days. I had been joking around with some people that inquire into my life that my two days off I’m working, now this joke has not been such a laughing matter. I feel like it has begun to drive me insane yet I continue to pursue further opportunities to improve my grammar and story writing skills.
Just yesterday I inquired to two writing gigs for magazines. I hope that this will widen my scope and or credibility when trying to get an agent or write for other agencies. Then I wonder if I were to quit my job tomorrow if I would be able to support myself through writing. According to Allena Tapia from About.com she makes about 40k a year. I guess if I were that developed I might not be so bad off.
The past three novels that I have written I have found that while I am writing my social life takes a plummet. Only the three of my closes friends are really still there for me when I come out of the wilderness back to society. Here is the official catch. I am trying to make as much money as I can so that I can finally open up the restaurants that I have been dreaming of for years (who doesn’t have a goal similar to this?). The good thing about writing a novel is that you can see an end in sight. You know that there is going to be a lull in time where the publishing is at a slow pace while the publisher reads over the work, or the editing is taking place, the target market is reading the book and providing feedback. This is the time that you cash in on. You see all of your friends and you see the love of your life, your mom, your dog, your favorite cat, maybe you get to that leaky faucet that has been driving you crazy. I then have to pose the question, When is there an end in sight when you are writing as a living? What if you’re writing for that extra income?
Ultimately there is too much to get into here and I won’t. Allena Tapiafrom About.com has some great advice about juggling writing gigs and formal work so I do recommend that you visit her site, but at the same time.
Is there anyone else that feels similar to how I feel right now? If so, PLEASE fill me in on some of your coping techniques because I want to get so much better at all of this.
Caleb A. Mertz
Days come and days go as we work out our daily lives at the professional establishments we call “work”. Being a restaurant manager some may say that it is a bit easier for me to be able to talk to people and get to know them on a closer and more personal level. I can attest to this, but only as long as the restaurant isn’t crashing and burning before your very eyes. In the process of table touching (talking to each table to ensure that the food is great, and the service fast, efficient, and friendly) it is very easy to get wrapped up in conversation with the guests about food, their favorite chef, the weather, or sometimes your book!
It all started out when I saw these three ladies come into one of my previous restaurants. I was working as a server and I waited on the table. I made mention to all of my co-workers that Bam Margera’s mom was at my table. Though it wasn’t actually her people found it funny at how much she really looked like Bam’s mom. Two of the three ladies had since returned to my newest restaurant where I manage. We began talking about their favorite server and soon got onto a poster for my book signing. Then the ladies let me know that they work for the Bethlehem Library, are presidents of boards, and entrepreneurs themselves.
I paused for a moment at the disbelief. I had been talking to these ladies for the longest of time. They had been frequenting my restaurants and now all of the sudden I come to find out that they could hold a key to the furtherance of my writing career.
“dress the part”
The ladies are always working on new things and have the utmost anticipation for the best from all that they support. It comes down to never giving up an opportunity to make a new connection whether at work or walking down the street. If you are trying to become a public figure, act and dress like one. There are many sayings that refer back to this such as “dress for the job you want”, “dress the part”, and my personal favorite (sprouting from a break up) “fake it, till you make it”.
All authors and writers have their own distinct methods. Some go to cafe’s and write out their little stories in hopes that they will be the next success story like J.K. Rowling. While others write whenever they can and whatever they can. I don’t currently have an agent or public relations manager so I have to go out and do everything for myself. All of the marketing, the talking, the phone calls, the ads, and even the website up keep is all up to me. I realize, from talking with other local authors, that this is actually a common practice and very few people ever really see that agent that works just as hard for them as the author did coming up with the story or article. These are, however, the sorts of things that give us all our own additional goals.
These ladies just so happened to pop up, but I wonder. What if we all asked everyone we ran into about their reading? How far could we get if absolutely everyone we knew realized that we were writers?
Please take time to write a comment or post a similar story, be sure to tell how you felt as of this revelation.
To my fans,
I am sitting here this late evening after work wondering about what it is I would like to do in the future. Well actually I am just day dreaming about what I would like to do as some of the guests in the restaurant I manage were quite difficult tonight. Ridiculous complaints was all I really heard, but what makes them so bad is the people get vicious. You would almost think that I was insulting their children or something horrible like that.
The truth be told I do love the restaurant industry and intend on staying in it. I was, however, looking over freelance writing perspectives over the past few weeks and have noticed that there are many people asking bloggers to write for cash! I have never blogged before, but I figured I might as well give it a try if people are willing to pay for blogs to be written. Here I am a little past midnight writing it up.
As it turns out freelance writing can be an adventure and beneficial fiscally as well. The only situation that I have had a problem with in the past, and probably still have is GRAMMAR . There is always, however, a remedy. I am currently using the aid of my friends over at about.com to help me get better at identifying grammar mistakes and problems. I love incomplete sentences and I love missing lots of my punctuation. I still double space after a period, (is that wrong?)
No matter what, I am still going to be taking strides at getting better with my writing skills. I believe that a story written correctly and in a manner that people can relate and understand will be a best seller. My current work can not have minor grammar mistakes so I am sure I will cheat and hire an editor. I just thought it was a fun fact to inform everyone of, knowing that you can get paid for writing your thoughts in blog form.
Thank you for your time,
Caleb A. Mertz